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4 years!

4 years ago yesterday, I married this man:

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And even though the last 4 years have had a lot of ups and downs, we are still going strong and are excited to be expecting Edward any day now. Time sure does fly.

So here is to many more years as a disgustingly happy couple. 😛

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39 Weeks

Week 39

How far along: 39 weeks – almost done!

Baby’s size: Mini Watermelon – Your baby matches up to a mini watermelon, weighing a bit over 7 pounds. (Length: about 20 inches, head to heel)

Sleep: I get anywhere from 1.5-2 hour chunks at a time before I have to get up for the bathroom. It is nice that I am able to go right back to sleep afterwards, but it still leaves me slightly exhausted in the morning. The morning exhaustion is getting better, so I know it is just prepping me for the first months with baby.

Maternity Clothes:Yep. And now I have only two options: Pull my pants up over my belly button so my tummy doesn’t stick out under my shirt, or just wear dresses.

Food Cravings: I really want a BBQ bacon cheeseburger with a Dr. Pepper. That is what I have been craving the last week, but I haven’t really done much to satisfy that craving. There is a Red Robin only about a mile away.

Food Aversions: Still spicy like it has been all pregnancy. I am able to eat a little bit more of a spice, but I can’t put too much on my food otherwise I can’t eat it.

Symptoms I have: False Labor contractions. They are coming and going. They were about 20 minutes apart for a couple hours the other night, then I laid down and they went away. 🙁 Other than that, I have heartburn after taking my vitamins but Papaya enzymes have been helping with that. I have been getting nauseous again. No actual throwing up, but very nauseous. I realized yesterday that I had been standing and doing things too long and my ankles swelled up. Luckily the swelling went down once I got off my feet. I have been getting “lightning crotch” where it just feels like EJ grabbed a nerve down there and yanked on it. Boy does it hurt! Luckily it only lasts a little bit before it goes away, but it sure takes my breath away.

Doctor’s Appointment:  Tomorrow afternoon.

Movement: His movement is definitely getting slower which is not helping my anxiety. I have to sit there and really focus on him moving because he isn’t doing the jerky kicks now. It is just small stretching movements.

Belly Button: The tip of it is popping out depending on where baby is situated when I check.

Gender: Boy!

What I’m looking forward to: Getting this show on the road and seeing EJ. Hopefully sometime this week.

What I miss: Easily rolling over in bed and being able to get dressed quickly instead of taking awhile since I have to stop and take breaks for breathing after bending over.

So.. since I did it for Pixel because we were team green, I thought I would go ahead and look through the old wives tales for little EJ as well. I know we already know the gender, but it was fun to see what we would have thought we were having had we have gone team green again. 🙂

Old Wives Tale #1:  Heart Rate

If the baby’s heart rate is above 140 bpm, it is said that the baby will be a girl.  If it is under 140 bpm, then it will be a boy.

– EJ’s heart rate has been constantly between 150-160’s. Hasn’t slowed down at all. This means girl.

Old Wives Tale #2:  Shape of Belly

If you are carrying high with a big, round belly, you are having a girl.  If you are carrying low with a smaller belly that sticks straight out, it’s a boy.

– I am carrying low with a belly that sticks straight out. It is more of an egg shape than round. This indicates boy.

Old Wives Tale #3:  Ring Test

Using a string, hang your wedding ring over your pregnant belly.  You are having a girl if the ring swings back and forth  and it’s a boy if it swings in a circle.

– I haven’t done the ring test. so no idea about this one.

Old Wives Tale #4:  Shape of Mom’s Face

When your face gets fuller and rounder when pregnant, it means you’re going to have a girl.  If your face is long and narrow, it’s a boy.

– My face has actually gotten fuller and rounder. At least that’s what it looks like to me. This means girl.

Old Wives Tale #5:  Key Test

This test involves a key.  If you pick up a key at the top (the roundest part), you are going to have a boy.  If you pick up the key at the bottom (smallest part), you are going to have a girl.  If you happen to grab the key in the middle, congrats, it’s twins!

– I usually pick up the keys by the middle, but lately I have been noticing I have been picking them up by the top. So… boy it is.

Old Wives Tale #6:  Mayan Tale

The Mayan tale adds the mothers age at conception and the year of conception.  If the result is a even number then mom is having a girl.  If the result is an odd number then a boy is on the way!

– I was 27 and the year was 2012 so that is odd and makes for a boy.

Old Wives Tale #7:  Drano Test

The drano test combines a tablespoon of Drano and urine together.  If the mixture turns green, it’s a girl.  If it turns blue, it’s a boy.

– I refuse to do the drano test. I have heard some bad things about it, so I won’t even give it a try.

Old Wives Tale #8:  Acne

If you have acne while pregnant, it’s a girl.  It’s thought that acne during pregnancy is caused by the extra hormones.

– I have had lots of acne lately. It is almost like a teenager just starting puberty acne. All over and I can’t get it to go away. Supposedly means a girl is on her way.

Old Wives Tale #9:  Cravings

People believe that if you are craving salty foods while pregnant, you can count on having a boy.  If you crave sweets, fruit, and orange juice, you are having a little girl.

– My cravings have been all over the place. The first half of the pregnancy I only wanted greasy foods. This second half, it has been all about the sweets. Haven’t really craved a lot of salty things so I would say this one is a girl indicator..

Old Wives Tale #10:  Smell of Garlic

If a pregnant woman eats a clove of garlic and the smell does not come out of her pores, it’s a girl.  If the smell seeps out of her pores, it’s a boy.

– I eat lots of garlic, but usually Darrell eats it to, so no idea whether or not the smell comes out my pores.

Old Wives Tale #11:  Skin under Left Eye

The eye test is when a “V” or “branches” appear when you pull down the skin under your left eye.  If you see a “V” or “branches” in the white part, you’re having a girl.

– No “V” or “branches”, so that means it is a boy.

Old Wives Tale #12:  Previous Kids

This tale only applies if you have had previous kids.  If you have and that child’s first word was momma, you will have a girl.  If your first child’s first word was dadda, you’ll have a boy.

– As our first passed away before birth, we can’t use this one.

Old Wives Tale #13:  History of Parent’s Kids

You can find out the sex by going off of your parent’s kids and the order.  If you are the first born, you will have what your mother had but starting with her second child.  If you are the middle child, you will have what she had, but starting with the third child.  If you are the last child, you will have what your mother had in the exact order.  I think this tale only works when the parent’s had three kids.

– According to this one we are set for a girl. We are both first borns, and our second siblings are both a girl. Plus, our donor only has a sister. We don’t know whether he is a firstborn or not though.

Old Wives Tale #14:  Time of Conception

The person that is most aggressive in bed at the time of conception is the opposite of what the baby will be.

– This one doesn’t apply to us because I was on a table at a doctors office.

Old Wives Tale #15:  Legs

If your legs get really big, you’re having a boy.  If your legs stay in shape and lean, it’s a girl.

– I definitely have thunder thighs and they seem to be getting bigger. I hope I get them back to normal after delivery. Supposedly this means it is a boy.

Old Wives Tale #16:  Moodiness and a Little Pecker

If you are really moody, you are having a girl since you have another extra girl hormones in you. Your pregnancy will make you smile and be more happy if you are having a boy because there’s a little penis inside you.

– I am definitely moodier than I was before pregnancy. I have had days where I have hit every emotion in a 24 hour period. I feel so bad for Darrell sometimes. This indicates a girl.

Old Wives Tale #17:  Bread

If you eat the ends of bread, it’s a boy.  If you eat the middle of the load, it’s a girl.

– I eat the ends occasionally. Not on a regular basis, but if we are down to the end, I will eat the ends. So this makes it a boy or girl.

Old Wives Tale #18:  Chinese Gender Chart

The Chinese Gender Chart claims to have an accuracy rate of over 90%.  It is based on how old the mother is at conception and the month that she conceived.

– Both my conception date and due date say we are having a boy.

Old Wives Tale #19:  Mom’s Beauty

Basically you are having a girl if your beauty disappears during pregnancy.  It is said that the girl “steals” the mother’s beauty.  If you think that pregnancy has never made you look more beautiful, you might just be having a little boy.

– According to Darrell, I have never looked so good, so this leans for a boy.

Old Wives Tale #20:  Dream of Sex of Baby

If you have dreams that you are having a boy, you will have a girl.  If you dream about having a girl, it will be a boy.  Dreams show the opposite of what you are having.

– I only had dreams about baby early in the pregnancy. Those dreams were about a little girl. So this means we were set to have a boy.

Old Wives Tale #21:  Clumsy vs. Graceful

If the pregnant woman is graceful throughout her pregnancy, she’s having a girl.  If she becomes clumsy, she’s having a boy.

– I have always been clumsy. I have about the same amount of clumsiness now, so that would indicate a boy.

Old Wives Tale #22:  Toddlers

If a toddler boy expresses interest in a pregnant woman, she is having a girl.  If he doesn’t show interest, she’s having a boy.

– I have only hung around a few toddler boys during my pregnancy. All of them expressed interest in me, so this indicates a girl.

Old Wives Tale #23:  Side You Most Rest On

If a pregnant woman prefers to lay on her left side, she’s having a boy.  If she prefers resting on her right side, she’s having a girl.

– I prefer to lay on my right side about 70 percent of the time. I still lay on my left side and my back occasionally. So this would indicate a girl.

Old Wives Tale #24:  Hands

When the pregnant woman is asked to show her hands, it’s a boy if she keeps her palms down and a girl if she shows her palms up.

– I always show my hands palms up. Guess that means girl again.

Old Wives Tale #25:  Dad’s Weight Gain

If the dad-to-be gains weight while you are pregnant, it’s a girl.  If he doesn’t gain weight, you’re having a boy.

– Darrell has gained a little bit of weight this pregnancy. This indicates girl.

Old Wives Tale #26:  Breast Test

If a pregnant woman’s left breast is larger than the right breast, she’s having a girl.  If the right breast is larger, it’s a boy.

– My right breast has always been slightly larger than my left. during pregnancy, they have about evened out. I would lean more towards girl in this case.

Old Wives Tale #27:  Necklace Over Hand

Have someone hold a necklace over your hand.  If the necklace swings back and forth, it’s a boy.  If it moves in a circle, it’s a girl.

– This is another test I haven’t done and probably won’t do.

Old Wives Tale #28:  What Do You Think?

71% of the time, the mom-to-be knows what she is having.

– I spent my pregnancy (before the ultrasound) thinking it was a girl. I’m not using my thoughts after the ultrasound as we did find out the gender so it is biased. 🙂

Old Wives Tale #29:  Morning Sickness

If you had a smooth pregnancy with no morning sickness, it’s a boy.  If you were sick or felt really nauseous during your pregnancy, count on a girl.

– I was extremely nauseous and was miserable for a good chunk of the first trimester. This is another vote for girl.

Old Wives Tale #30:  Areolae

If your areolae (the part around your nips) have darkened, it’s a boy.

– I do have to say that my areolae have darkened. Not gotten really dark, but they are definitely a shade darker. Another vote for boy.

Old Wives Tale #31:  Protein

When a pregnant woman craves meat and cheese, count on a boy.

– My biggest craving throughout this pregnancy has been a BBQ bacon cheeseburger. I have had them multiple times, but I still crave them a lot. This is definitely a vote for a boy.

Old Wives Tale #32:  Feet

Are your feet colder now that you are pregnant?  If so, you just might be having a boy.  If your feet have stayed the same before pregnancy and during, you’re having a little girl.

– So far my feet have remained about the same as before pregnancy. I do wear socks almost all of the time though. Vote for girl.

Old Wives Tale #33:  Hair on Legs

If the hair on your legs has been growing at record speeds, you might be having a boy.

– As I don’t shave my legs all that often, I have no idea how fast my leg hair has been growing. But I have been shaving my armpits and the hair has been growing like a weed. This is an indicator of a boy.

Old Wives Tale #34:  Hands are Dry

If your hands are constantly dry, it’s a boy.

– My hands are always sweaty on the palms, but the outside of the hands are definitely dry. I have been putting on tons of lotion. Giving this another boy/girl vote.

Old Wives Tale #35:  Urine

What color is your pee?  If it is bright yellow, you will have a little boy.  If your urine is a dull yellow, plan on a girl.

– I don’t know about most of y’all, but my urine changes color density depending on how much water I drink. Lots of water = dull yellow, little water = bright yellow. So here’s another boy/girl vote.

Old Wives Tale #36:  Nose

Do you feel like your nose is growing and getting wider?  If so, you might be having a boy.

– My nose isn’t growing at all. Vote for girl.

Old Wives Tale #37:  Headaches

If you are having headaches, you might be carrying a boy.

– I have (knock on wood) only gotten a few headaches this time. It has been a fairly easy going pregnancy. This leads towards a girl in my opinion.

Old Wives Tale #38:  Full Moon

A full moon was believed to cause a woman to go into labor and give birth.

– We shall see. The full moon is tonight  (May 24th) and I am not due for another 11 days. Baby is measuring full term, so I am hopeful.

Total Numbers: Girl = 15; Boy = 12; Either = 4; Not Applicable = 5

So according to this, EJ should be a girl by three votes. Pixel was suppose to be a boy by 1 vote (Pixels Old wives Tales) which he was. We found out via ultrasound this time and every ultrasound has confirmed EJ is a boy. So we are hoping there is no surprise in the delivery room. Granted I did fill out this Old Wives Tales for EJ almost 10 weeks later into the pregnancy than I did with Pixel, but oh well. Enjoy!

Nursery

So.. I said awhile ago that I would post pictures of the nursery. This is what it looks like right now. We will most likely change some things around especially as baby grows, but this is what is going to work for us at this moment in time. We are excited to add the final element to the room whenever he decides it is time. The stuff in the crib is the bag that is packed for the birth center so we had somewhere we could store it and remember what it was for. We might actually move that to the car in the next couple of days just in case. We have been pretty lucky in the fact that the cats don’t get into the crib. They have actually mostly stayed out of the room unless Darrell or I are in it. We still plan on keeping a close eye on them once baby is finally here, but I think the transition will be easy-ish for them.

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38 Weeks

Week 38

How far along: 38 weeks

Baby’s size: Leek – Your baby, now as long as a leek, weighs nearly 7 pounds. (Length: more than 19.5 inches, head to heel)

Sleep: Most of the week I was up every 90 minutes either for the bathroom or just a hip pain. Last night however.. I slept in 4 hour chunks and only had to get up once for the bathroom. Yay! I think it was helpful that I laid the two body pillows down and slept on them and also added some other extra pillows. Downside was it made it hard to get up in the middle of the night.

Maternity Clothes: Yup. Still getting rid of shirts as they slowly stop covering my belly. At home I just relax around in whatever is comfortable, but when I go to an appointment, I like having the top and bottom since they measure belly etc. Seems to be the same outfit every week for that.

Food Cravings: I have been craving a Dr. Pepper. I don’t want to buy a big one as I only want one glass with a meal, but everytime we have gone out to eat since I started having this craving, they don’t have Dr. Pepper. It so isn’t fair. 🙁 Oh well.. I have been eating a lot of chocolate chip cookies and getting my cookie dough fix in. 🙂

Food Aversions: Still spicy. I am most likely going to suck it up and see if I can get some spicy into my meals to help bring on labor if needed (worth a shot even if it doesn’t work, but we won’t begin that probably until late next week)

Symptoms I have: Everything under the sun. 🙂 Just kidding. Occasionally I get heartburn, but some papaya enzymes have been a charm with that. My hips are so out of whack it isn’t funny. It hurts to waddle around and go up and down. We bought an exercise ball and that has been a lifesaver! It totally helps realign my hips and I feel so much better after a couple minutes on the ball versus the couch. The downside is I start to get tired and doze, so I have to move to the couch so I don’t fall asleep on the ball. Every walk we go on I get contractions and it is really uncomfortable to do walks. Makes me a little sad, but happy at the same time since we are so close. I am constantly nauseous no matter what I do. (Even the Sea-Bands aren’t helping).

Doctor’s Appointment: Tomorrow afternoon. I am hoping it is our last one until baby is here, but who knows. Maybe the full moon this weekend will jump start labor. 🙂

Movement: Everywhere! This little one is all over the place. He only really gets going late at night and rarely during the day. Most days they are such soft movements that I miss them. Then I start stressing out and he gives me a good thump. So I try to not worry unless I haven’t gotten his dance party by bedtime.

Belly Button: Starting to pop.

Gender: Boy!

What I’m looking forward to: A nice alcoholic beverage and of course meeting our son! I am slightly dreading the labor part, but am looking forward to the light at the end. Oh.. and Darrell’s mom is going to be here tomorrow so she will be a huge help as we get the rest of our life ready for baby! So excited!

What I miss: Easily rolling over in bed instead of having to take a couple breaks to get the roll done. Darrell laughs because I usually have to reach over the side of the bed to grab the frame and help pull myself the rest of the way.

And just for fun…. A picture of the front view of my belly. I have a stretch mark at every point that I was given a shot for the fertility medications. It isn’t purty, but it’s my bellah!

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