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8 Months

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*As you can tell, he would rather move than take a picture with his lion. I tried twice about 15 minutes each time and these were the best shots I got. Next month will be fun if he is really moving!*

Playtime: Still loving playing with his blocks. He is starting to get into the clapping stage and learned how, so now he claps a lot. It is great because he starts to clap when he wants our attention or while Darrell is playing his bagpipe chanter. We have moved most of his toys into our ottoman and it is full of stuffed animal like items. He is constantly digging through it and making a mess. It is awesome! (For now while it is still mostly contained on his playmat).

Sleep: We have started work on reverting his schedule. It took a few weeks, but we finally have him back to going to sleep between 7-8pm and not waking up until 8:30-9am. It is still rough putting him to sleep at night since he just screams and squirms in full on tantrum style. We have tried no later than 2 hours after his last nap, 3 hours after and sometimes even 4 hours after. Nothing works. There is the occasional night where he goes down without a fuss, but it is very rare. I don’t understand why bedtime is so bad. Every single nap is easy. He nurses, I rock him, put him down awake, he lays there for about 5 minutes and then is out for an hour. I wish bedtime was that easy. He has been waking up once in the middle of the night (usually around 6am) but that has been for teething.

Food: We have started to just give him what we eat. I make sure it is small enough for him and he just shoves it in his mouth. We did stop making our own puree’s and we buy the pouches for when we are out or if what we are having for dinner isn’t very baby friendly. Since we switched to doing that, he hasn’t really turned anything down. I think he just loves to feed himself. I do have to say that we stopped doing the 3 day wait between foods. It might bite us later, but right now it is what works for us.

Teething: There was a lot of teething all month. His gums got sharp and we were hoping that one was going to cut through soon. Wouldn’t you know it… 5 days before he hit 8 months, the front bottom two cut through at the same time. They are still working their way up, so it is really hard to see them since Edward won’t let us look. They are starting to become more visible from just a smile, but you really have to look. I’m giving it another couple of weeks before they are in charge. 🙂

Clothes: Still in those 9-month clothes (depending on the brand) and some brands of the 12-month are getting small on him. I went through the clothes we had and pulled out all of his 18-month up to 2T clothes. I know we won’t need the bigger ones for awhile, but I needed to use the space for all the other clothes since we have kept a lot of what we had because we are planning for another one in the future.

Movement: Still wants to stand all the time. Shortly after he turned 7-months, he took his first steps while we were holding his hands. Now all he wants to do is walk around. It is starting to hurt my back from holding him and helping him all the time, so I spend nights just relaxing and recovering. Still no crawling. He gets up to his hands, one foot and a knee a lot and can kind of scooch himself around. Hasn’t left the playmat area yet, so we are still good on the baby gate front.

5 months

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Playtime: He loves playing with his toys. We are mainly playing with teethers right now as he is drooling and chewing on everything. He gets plenty of tummy time and has recently started to roll from tummy to back shortly after I put him down. Of course then he gets fussy and only wants to be picked up. He has found his feet and loves to play with them and stick his big toes in his mouth. It seems to only be his right foot for now. Occasionally he will get his left foot up there, but he definitely prefers his right foot. He likes to bang on things and will go for our computer keyboards if we are close enough. We recently pulled out my keyboard and let him play with it. It is one of the first things he likes to do in the morning and after a bath. The other things he enjoys doing throughout the day is mirror time and visiting Daddy.

Sleep: We finally reached sleeping through the night! We had the sleep regression for about 4 weeks and he was in his co-sleeper. We slowly worked on the transfer to the crib. We would put him down in his crib in his room and move him to the co-sleeper in our room when we went to bed. For a few nights, that was when he was waking up anyways. Then we were moving him asleep and he would wake up shortly after the move. So we decided to just let him sleep and only move him if he woke up. A few days later, he was sleeping through the night. He has been doing it for about 2 weeks now and it is very nice. We put him down between 6:30-8 (depending on his cues) and he wakes up once about an hour after we put him down to eat one last time and then doesn’t wake up until 8-8:30am. He might wake up and fuss around but he puts himself back to sleep so I don’t actually wake up. There have been a couple nights recently where he wakes up around 5:30am to eat and goes back to sleep until around 9 but they aren’t regular. He has also mastered the roll to his side since he prefers to sleep on his side. I lay him on his back and by the time I get downstairs and the monitor on, he is on his side.

Food: Edward decided he was ready for solids earlier than we thought we would give them to him. He was only eating every 2-3 hours and then he started working his way back so I was feeding him every hour. I was starting to get exhausted during the day so we started solids and he has worked back out to every 2-3 hours. We started with mashed up avocados and then have slowly moved on to other foods. So far, he has had avocado, banana, oatmeal, and applesauce. His favorite right now is banana. He doesn’t like the texture of oatmeal so we are still trying it and he likes applesauce but is not a fan of the tartness. We will probably wait a week or so before starting another food (either sweet potatoes or green beans are next on the list). Right now we only feed him once a day but I think he is starting to want it twice a day.

 Teething: He is still really drooly and fussy occasionally. I saw a tooth for a few days but it went away again. He is starting to get a nice bite and his gums feel sharp so it hurts when he gnaws on our hands.

Clothes: He has slowed down his quick growth (yeah!) so he is still in his 6-9 month clothes. We still have some 3-6 and 6 month items out but it is only a couple. Most of what he wears are 9 month outfits. Maybe he will stay in them for a couple more months. 🙂

Diapers: We have undid the last vertical snap so they won’t get any longer. He is starting to be between horizontal snaps so we might have to come out another snap on that soon. It really depends on the diaper though. We have been having compression leaks so we have to make sure to change him every 1.5-2 hours otherwise he needs a whole outfit change. I need to do a strip clean of them and it might help with stuff but I haven’t had a chance yet. Soon though.

4 Months

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This last month has really shaken things up a bunch. He weighed in at 17.5 pounds and 28 inches long at the pediatricians office this morning. That is still on track with where he was for his two month appointment. Off the charts for height and 90 percentile for weight. We are about ready to transition him from the infant carseat to a convertible carseat. That is a big change within itself but it might not happen for another few weeks. We have started to leave his carseat in the car and just get him out of it but I can’t do the grocery shopping by myself since he can’t sit by himself in the cart yet. So… close….

Playtime: He has started to use his hands a lot more. He loves to grasp toys and stick them in his mouth. He still isn’t rolling over, but we know it is coming. He does it occasionally, but it seems more accidental. He has rolled from tummy to back 4 times so far (and once was at the pediatricians office today). He is more focused on the toy and the feeling of it in his hands and mouth instead of just seeing it move when he swats it. He loves listening to music and watches Darrell play instruments all the time. He has even grabbed the chanter and stuck it in his mouth. He smiles all the time and we get a lot of giggles. They aren’t as allusive as they once were. Darrell definitely gets more laughs and giggles than I do.

Sleep: We hit the 4 month sleep regression a little early and are trying to recover from that. He did a little bit of sleeping through the night and then they slowly got progressively worse. It dropped down to 4 hour chunks (which were normal for him) and then 3 hour, 2 hour and finally one hour chunks. I was more exhausted than I had been since he was born. I felt like I was up all the time and my clock was all screwed up. He is starting to work back towards 4 hour chunks, but we will see where it goes.  His naps during the day are fine, it is just bedtime that we are having a hard time with.

Food: He has started to really focus on what we are doing when we are eating. He watches intensely and ‘chews’ with us. Darrell is excited for him to start foods soon but we don’t think he is quite ready. We make sure he sits at the table with us and we give him a spoon to play with while we are at the table. We have been dipping our fingers in whatever sauce we have and giving him a little taste and he is enjoying it and constantly wants more. We are thinking he will get his first food right around Thanksgiving.

Teething: We are pretty sure he is teething. The Pediatrician said that it is just normal for this age with all of his drooling and fussiness. He drools all the time but isn’t fussy every day. I have been running my finger along his gums and I am pretty sure I can see the little whites of his bottom teeth. They haven’t broken through yet and it can take quite a few more months before they do. When he gets extra fussy and running my fingers over his gums helps him, I have been putting a piece of ice in a mesh food feeder for him to suck on. He loves sucking on it and it stops the fussy. Most of the liquid usually ends up all over his clothes, but it does its job.

Clothes: He is now in 6-9 month clothes. There are a few 3 month items that still fit, but it is only the ones that were large to begin with. Some of his 6 month outfits don’t fit him since they run small. He has a few outfits that were 0-6 that Darrell and I love and put on him all the time. One of them no longer fits and the other one is getting close to being on its way to the box in the garage.

Diapers: His diapers are still at the same snap level. They are getting a little small so it is almost time to take them out another snap but when we do, he seems to have more leakage issues. We also prepped and started to use the bamboo liners. We only have 4 of them, but they work great for overnight. When we go to change his diaper before bed, we just add the bamboo liner to the microfiber liner and we are set. It makes his butt a little bit bigger, but he was soaking through his diapers halfway through the night and instead of just changing his diaper, I usually ended up having to either change his whole outfit or letting him sleep in just a diaper. With the added insert, he now goes 12 hours at night without leaking. This is great because he is getting to the age where he should be starting to drop to one nighttime feed.

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This last month has been stressful to say the least. We did a lot of traveling which Edward is definitely a champ at. There are the “wonder weeks” where babies are growing and so they get fussy and like to eat every hour and then cry for seemingly no reason. Edward hit his 12 week one and is still going strong. Once he realizes we are starting to get him ready for bed, he starts crying and nothing helps him. He is fed, has a clean diaper, isn’t too hot or too cold (as we constantly cover and uncover him to figure it out). All we have come up with doing is to hold him and rock him while quietly talking to him to help him sleep. This process can take anywhere from half an hour to over 90 minutes. I usually start the process by feeding him and rocking him, and if he doesn’t go down within 45 minutes, I pass him off to Darrell who tries for half an hour. We only pass off if we are getting frustrated. Once he is down though, he goes back down no problem after eating.

Other than the bedtime routine, everything else has been smooth sailing. He doesn’t always like to nap during the day, so sometimes I end up doing a shortened period of bedtime routine just to get him to take a half hour nap. He is usually up for about two hours and then sleeps for 30-60 minutes. He tends to take about 3 naps during the day.

So our typical daily routine is approximately:

Wake-up 7:30

eat 7:45-8

play 8-10

eat 10-10:15

sleep 10:30-12:30

play 12:30-1

eat 1-1:15

play 1:15-1:45

sleep 2-3

play 3-4:30

eat 4:30-4:45

sleep 5-5:30

eat 5:30-5:45

play 5:45-6:30

eat 6:30-6:45

bedtime routine start 7

usually asleep between 7:30-9

wakes up to eat at midnight, and 4.

During play time, we do a couple things. He likes to sit on the couch and play with a handkerchief. We put him on the mat on the floor and put a mirror over him so he can talk to the baby in the mirror. He gets tummy time in front of a mirror. We sing songs, read books, take walks and he talks to the dining room light. He is starting to reach for items and grab them intentionally. He can’t hold onto them, but he will play with it for a little bit.

We also got our first belly laugh out of him the day before his three months. We had gone to a BBQ at Uncle Kenny’s and Darrell was playing with Edward on a desk and Edward just got a big ole belly laugh going. I am still waiting for mine. He definitely likes to be in a sitting upright position and likes to be involved with whatever we are doing. He talks a lot now and is always making noises at things. He loves looking at words and always looks at Darrell’s white board in his office when we go down there. We wrote his name on it and he just looks and smiles and then starts to talk.

I don’t know his measurements and wont until next month, but I do know he has grown. He is out of his 3 month clothes and is already out of some of the 3-6 and 6 month clothes. We finally took the infant insert out of the carseat and he is getting to the point we might need to go ahead and buy another carseat before too long. We have also started putting him in the stroller without the carseat which is nice because it is less hassle to carry around, but with the way our stroller works, we lost a little bit of space once we did that.

Edward is now taking some naps in his crib and also the first part of bedtime is in his crib until Darrell and I go to bed when we move him to the cosleeper. I think this might be helping in aiding his need for a midnight feeding, so we are going to try putting him in the cosleeper the whole time and see how the nights go.

As for cloth diapers, we are still rocking it. I am currently doing about 2 loads every other day right now. One for diapers and one for spit rags since he is still a spitter. However, I am thinking that soon I will only have to do them every 3 days. We are consistently using about 15-16 diapers in those two days so we still have 9-10 more when I do laundry. I was going to try not to do diapers on the second day and wait until the third, but the best time for me to wash them is after Edward goes down for bed so I just wash them to be on the safe side. He doesn’t poop all that often (sometimes we only have one poopy diaper when we wash them), and it was something we worried about when it first started happening, but he does poop at least once in a 48 hour period, so we aren’t worried anymore. It doesn’t bother him, so we try not to let it bother us. 🙂

We are still breastfeeding. It is getting easier now that he is getting better/faster at it. I still try to pump so that we always have a bottle in the fridge, but for awhile, I was only getting a couple ounces (and I only like pumping once a day) so when Darrell would feed him, I would still have to go in since it wasn’t enough. I started to eat more avocado and Oatmeal and then only pump half an hour before bed and now I am getting about 4-5 ounces.

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One year ago today, we sat in a little room waiting for the doctor. The nurse came in and we confirmed that the vial they were giving us was indeed our donor. Everything we wanted and hoped for laid in that vial. It was the last vial from the donor we had: the last chance of a brother or sister for Pixel: our last shot at trying for at least a year while we saved up money.

Everything looked good going into that room. The medications had worked like they were suppose to, I had three beautiful follicles and an amazing lining. The exact same scenario that we got pregnant with Pixel and Bit 10 months ago.

We were excited. The doctor came in, did the procedure and wished us luck as he walked out of the room. We sat for another 10 minutes and then I got up off the bed and got dressed. The nurses wished us luck as we left and gave me a form for a blood test in two weeks. I knew it would be a long two weeks waiting to see if it worked.

It ended up being a very long 9 months, but Edward is finally here and we are so happy. We are thankful for the science that allows us to get pregnant and the doctors and nurses who were there every step of the way and helped relieve any anxiety they could.

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